(Unless otherwise noted, the Kathryn Tucker Windham blog is written by her daughter, Dilcy Windham Hilley.)
Like most people, my mother was a sucker for babies. She would ooh and ahh over the precious little things and sing lullabies to them which, remarkably, they seemed to enjoy. I say remarkably because Mother’s vocal talents lay in her storytelling, not in her choral abilities.
Her first grandchild, David Windham, was not born until Mother was 70, so she had to wait a long time to pamper a grand of her own. Three years later, along came her second grandson, Ben Hilley. In her eyes, both David and Ben were the most beautiful babies ever to be produced on the planet.
Of course, not all babies are beauties. It can be difficult to find something truthful yet kind to say about newborns who have not yet developed their physical allure. When she encountered such unfortunate babies, my mother had a standard comment: “Oh, look how nice the baby’s ears lie flat against his head!”
The doting parents were pleased with the compliment, and Mother had been kind.
We welcome YOUR comments on our blog posts. You will see a "comments" link at the top and bottom of each page. Feel free to join in!
Want to get alerts when new posts are added to this Blog? Visit and "Like" our Facebook page and you will see the new posts there when they are added!
Click here to visit the new Kathryn Tucker Windham Facebook Page.
"Some people are important to intellectuals, journalists, or politicians, but Kathryn Tucker Windham is probably the only person I know in Alabama who is important to everybody."
–Wayne Flynt, Professor Emeritus in the Department of History at Auburn University.
Dilcy Windham Hilley
© 2023 - Dilcy Windham Hilley. All rights to images belong to the artists who created them.
Site by Mike McCracken firstname.lastname@example.org